What happens when we “bite off more than we can chew”? We have to face the music.
When I was in 5th grade, I played the trumpet. The band teacher had planned a recital to be performed in front of the whole school. I was asked to play a specific piece, and I accepted the assignment. I did so with little knowledge of the song. That was a mistake.
As I began practicing the piece, it quickly became clear that the song was very hard and beyond my skill level. I kept trying and things seemed to be getting worse. Not wanting to make a fool of myself in front of the whole school audience, I decided to back out. Before I bailed I told my mom. She didn’t cut me any slack, and said, “Stephen, you gave that man your word and you must keep your word.” I replied, “But mom, I’ll make a fool of myself.” Mom responded, “Well I guess you”ll just have to make a fool of yourself. If you commit to something, you must follow through.”
The day of the dreaded event came, and I still couldn’t play the piece. With no alternative, I got my mind in the right place, and began by handing the accompanist her part. I let mind my mind float into another zone. I played the song beautifully and to perfection. I could’t believe what was coming out of that horn.
Thanks to Mom for challenging me to be a person on my word. When we do what we say we will do, we gain confidence and earn respect. A leader guides someone to a place they would not go on their own.
